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![Beach Kings]() Beach Kings (2008)
IMDB rating: 4.00
Plot: A former college basketball star has one final shot at greatness when he participates in a professional beach volleyball tour.
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Directors: Nihipali Paul
Actors: Charvet David,Hutzler Brody,Young Court,White Jaleel,Olive Jason,Roberts Bret,Ring Jason,Hannemann Albert,Fonoimoana Eric,Farmer Danny,,
is there no hope for my girlfriend?
basically before we started dating i loved my life.. i had so many friends and so had much fun. i also had a job. i felt so free and so happy. i felt like my life was going perfect. then i met this girl.. immediately took her into my life. honestly i thought i was gonna marry her after 3 weeks lol we were so good together. we would lay on the beach at night it was good. then she started to "become more comfortable". she slowly but shorley took everything away from me.. i now cannot see friends. i cannot do the hobbies i enjoy.. i cant even leave my house when shes at school or work. she dosent let me do anything at all. for example last night i looked at my hair in the mirror real quick and she yelled at me.. when im with her i cant check my e-mail… i cant play any video games… no texting.. no showering… im not allowed to have any girls contacts in my phone.. i go to college (nights) and she wants me to sit by myself.. no anything bascially. i could go on for days talking about things she dosent want me to do. we also fight constantly, over little or big things it dosent matter she somehow figures out a reason why im always wrong.. i feel like i lost my life. and more important im not very happy any more either, i feel like i went from the king to the peasant.. i do love her and she loves me.. but im not sure if i can do this anymore. i have been trying to get her to realize some things and how shes wrong but nothing works. i have tried everything.. is she ever gonna get better
good answers.. exept i dont realldy understand the first one lol i think hes telling me to kill myself. im not afraid to be alone.. i have no problem with women i just want the one i have to be normal.. i do love her tons but im defiantly gonna start enjoying my life. if she wont let me see my friends or family anymore then im gonna have to give her the boot. thanks.
Gun and lyme
Morgan Tiller | Jan 28, 2010
Clearly, she has your testicles. You need to get them back.
Happy-2 | Jan 28, 2010
Sorry to say but she sounds totally psycho. No matter how much you care about somebody, you shouldn’t stay with her if she doesn’t care about your happiness and if she is bringing you down.
baby gurl | Jan 28, 2010
she better be one hot piece of azz to put up with any of that.
Q & A king, 2 many VN's | Jan 28, 2010
bro’s before hoe’s dude is her koochie that good that you have let her take your manhood? sit down and tell her the way things are going to be. if she dont like it show her how the door works. either that or powder up the pimp hand
vampyre4blood | Jan 28, 2010
She’s a control freak. Run…don’t walk …to the nearest exit. Loving someone isn’t about controlling their every move. She doesn’t trust you. And I don’t think the reason is about you…she has other unresolved issues.
tiki | Jan 28, 2010
No kinda life to have! Be free…RUN!!
Mel | Jan 28, 2010
Nope. She’s not going to change unless she wants to change and why should she? I mean she has you doing everything SHE wants, no reason for her to accomodate your feelings at this point. It is more likely that she will in fact get worse. She sounds like she has some serious self esteem and trust issues and could benefit from some intense therapy.
As for you…why do you feel the need to give into her every demand? Are you so afraid of being alone that you would rather be treated like a servant than be treated like her equal. If someone were treating your mother or sister the same way would you tolerate it? Doubtful. So why are you allowing yourself to be treated this way?
Your best bet is to start doing what you want (with in reason of course, I am by no means condoning cheating or anything of the sort) and ignoring what she tells you to do. If she wants to make a request of you, thats fine, but you should have the option of saying no without her throwing a temper tantrum like a child. If she cant deal with it, move on to someone who knows how to appreciate you.
vcupony | Jan 28, 2010
If you have been having sex before marriage then you are the same as married. You are married now so you have to act like it. You should be devoted to one person and that is her. Let the rest of the world go by and stick by her side until death. This seems to be what you want.
truth matters | Jan 28, 2010
Honestly your girlfriend sounds very insecure and possessive which I am sorry to say will end up to be the end of your relationship. My brother was in the same situation as you, his wife wouldnt let him speak to his family, go out with friends or even look at another person, she was so bad she used to check his underwear to see if he has been unfaithfully the relationship got from bad to worse to the extent where she was the one that ended up leaving him for another man.
I would suggest you tell her straight that your not happy with her, you basically have to grow a pair and tell her that a relationship is based on trust and respect, judging by her actions she really doesnt trust or respect you.
Its not right that she has taken you away from everything friends and hobbies its unnatural and not healthy for any relationship, either you set her straight and tell her how you feel and even if you have to threaten her with "ending the relationship" you have to show her that this relationship is about the two of you and not just her.
If she loves you then she should put her insecurities behind her and trust you otherwise I cant see your relationship lasting, whats next that she locks you in your home so you cant get out?
I do feel for you as i have seen what it did to my brother, he became a broken man, I hope you sort this out soon for your sake.
chick2508 | Jan 28, 2010
Pleasebepatient.Give hersome more time.
Nehru | Jan 28, 2010